How come two people who once were in love, got married, had children together and a history, can find themselves hating each other? I keep seeing on the news that people kill their mate for any kind of reasons. It could be jealousy or finances or just because they found someone else.
Why? Why because you stoped loving someone, not just separate or get a divorce?!!!Not being together is not always a failure! Some people are better friends than lovers after realizing it wasn't work out. Better parents for their kids after separating. It's unfortunate that relationships don't work, but it's worst when people hate each other just because it didn't wort out. Life is too short to hate someone! Even when they did you wrong, which them the best and move on. There are so many things to worry about. I don't have time for hate. I might be mad, but I think God every day to give me the strength to never hate anyone. I don't know anybody that I hate. I just chose to turn my back when I feel that things don't work out in any relationship. I wish you the best, but I got to go!
Even when I'm hurt, there is no one on this earth who deserves my hate. After a while, you'll be laughing at it saying " what the hell was I thinking?". You will find so much better than what you thought you had.
When I forgive I feel so much better! I focus better on things that actually matter to me. Such as my kids, school, family and real friends. You can't keep focusing on what you don't have any control. Focus on what you can make better, over wise, you'll be losing everything. So don't hate. You don't need to love everybody, but hate is a lost of time and energy, the most important things you'll need to put on the positive in your live. Don't waste them! They are rare these days! And remember, " every star needs darkness to shine".
Guess what I agree with 100%. Life is so short on this planet, compared to most things here. To hate another person is such a waste. This reminds me of what I told my children when I heard that word come from their little mouths. "I hate my use to be friend". I would remind them, that other person don't even fill the pain you are suffering with, just you. They are still having fun but every time you see each other, your world is the one that's turned upside down.
ReplyDeleteI agree hate is such a waste of energy and also keep you bound to that person. The best thing to do is to forgive and really forget to move on with your life. God always has a better thing for you. You can turn those negative feelings into positives and constructive thoughts.
ReplyDeleteBecause we are confused about who to love so we hate to replace it.
ReplyDeletebecause they never loved each other in the first place and to hate a person hard to the core and what is the reason to hate......i just don't understand why in many people have hatred in their heart and don't even know the reason.....but with that being said just stay around and keep the negative things out your life and follow your dreams and stop all the hating because it will not get you any where
ReplyDeleteI agree with this blog because it is a waste of space to hate. Because you only hurting yourself and not the other person.
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